The Quest for the Ultimate Beauty
Miss Universe? Bikini Open? Search for the Top Model?
Is this the ultimate beauty? What is THE ultimate beauty?
People (particularly MEN), perceive beauty as a perfect body, soft, clear,pore-less (if there is such) skin, silky hair, tiny face, expressive eyes, full lips.Oh, and don’t forget, BIG boobs and Beyonce- like booty.A very few are gifted with the mentioned characteristics. But majority of us,who are not gifted, feel pressured to always look beautiful and struggle to be perfect.
Yeah, this is my insecure side speaking.
I know and I readily acknowledge, that I am not- ahem- gifted. It’s easier to acknowledge that you’re not- ahem - perfect. Than to pretend that you are beautiful, but, really, people are laughing behind your back because they think, "yuck, feel nya ,maganda siya!Ang panget naman!HAHAHAHA!!"
So..I know that I’m not gifted…but oftentimes, it makes me so insecure, that sometimes I wish I was super rich so I could get my hair done, get my liposuction, get my boobs done, get my height done.Really.Oh, and get my self- esteem done too, if possible, because I’m lacking in deadly amounts of it. I just might end up in the Mental Hospital, you know. I have that scary potential.
Why? Maybe because I hate the fact that men can’t just stop adoring women. Even though they say that they love someone, and there’s nothing wrong with admiring somebody because women do that, too. Yeah, I’m actually guilty of that. Like, I think Orlando Bloom is really hot,and that Brandon Routh should be a topless Superman. Just that. But for men…admiring another woman seems like another thing. You know. Going to bed with them.Everything starts there, right? More often than not, it is men who are infidel bastards. I mean, come on, I think some guys are hot. But to think about them and daydream and imagine going to bed with them…oh, gross.That’s totally sick. But with men, somehow, they always get away with that. It’s unfair, right? Here are women, who loves faithfully, yet, guys just continue to drool over OTHER women, just making their partners feel ugly. I mean, if you think you’ve find the "Right One" for you, why do you need to look at other women? Is it to fulfill something that they want you to be, but won’t happen? (like, getting rid of your acne-scarred face, your cursed hair, and your 3- story belly, wrestler arms, tree-trunk legs,busting up your bumpers). I mean, if you you really love somebody, then he or she should satisfy you completely..in every aspect..like, no Orlando Bloom or Angelina Jolie can outshine you…He or she should be contented and happy for who and what you really are…You should be accepted wholly and beautifully… Because if that’s not the case, the relationship will go nowhere, so as early as possible, find someone who will appreciate and love and adore you for the rest of your life– even though you are wrinkled, your boobs are sagging, and your posture reminds everybody of "The Hunchback of Notre Dame", your husband will think (honestly and whole-heartedly) that you are still the Most Beautiful Woman in the Whole World.
